Where is this?

I was jumping around the site a few days ago and I remember seeing someplace where you can say something about a family member that has helped you and. I just hit 50 in Rift today and one of ours was kind enough to give me a crash course in what that means and I'd like to give him a shout out. where do I do this?

Just go to the valor tab on their profile page. There's an area to place notes and give tokens of valor there.