To Morigana:
For me it was the other way around actually. From looking at the rank structure and progression I knew that the leadership had to be strong and reliable. A weak leadership would never succeed with a structure that allows anyone to join; it would simply be chaos. After joining, I realized how much the Celtic mythology really affected the interactions and disputes. It is incredible how quickly disputes are resolved after people are reminded of the family etiquette and rules with a small sentence (i.e. "blades out, guys"), which I see as derived from the Celtic theme (intentionally or otherwise). Normally, paragraphs about respect an such are dismissed by most, but in here they stick with people. That is amazing.
To Kitty:
Yes, that would be very interesting indeed. However, that would take a lot more investigating.... and I really want to finish my M.A. soon.... So... I'm leaving that for later.
To Fym:
While khy0te is correct about the leadership being statistical outliers, I am simply stating that it is "NOT REQUIRED" for membership. It is obviously preferred for any member, but it is not something the family looks at when you join. Instead they look at the way you behave and converse with others in the family; the leadership wants to attract personable individuals instead of just "hardcore" competitive players. This is what makes it most unique from other guilds that are "powerful and influential;" at least this is the way I see it.
To Mystriss:
You are correct. Gaiscioch has been very successful at attracting what you call genuine online gamers.
My question to you is what do you think attracts and keeps them here?
I have my reservations about this (although you can probably deduce them by reading everything I've written here), but I would like to hear what you think.
You are also correct about how different people think of each of those as a different level of connection. (i.e. Speaking on the phone is transferable, but texting is not). However, this is currently out of my immediate subject because it is far to personal. I am already assuming that most active members that consider themselves part of the family think of text chatting and online-only interactions as transferable with physical interactions (or at least satisfactorily comparable). What you are mentioning would be a study determining why some people would not consider the Gaiscioch a "real" community. I am sadly not concerned with that right now...
I found the last part (printing up email to send as "acceptable" mail) VERY FUNNY. However, I will offer you what I think might be the reasoning for this:
Mail offers a very visible attempt of making a connection with someone. You have to spend money that is visible to the recipient (50 cents on shipping, 25cents on envelope and paper). We (U.S.) place a lot of value on money; thus, spending VISIBLE money to talk to someone demonstrates your "greater than normal" desire to speak to someone.
Meanwhile, email has very little visible contribution. Yes, you had to spend time writing it, but its is the same for the mail. You also have to pay for internet, which might come down to a similar amount as a mail for a lengthy email, but this money is not visible to the recipient.
Most people who prefer mail might tell you something like:
"it is the gesture that counts."
What is the gesture? ;)
» Edited on: 2013-10-03 13:50:42